How
to find a Christian Wife!
101
Tips on finding a Christian wife ::: advice and help
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2005 - Written
by Fusion101 Christian Singles Dating & Chat - Do not copy
Here's
one you might.. or might not want to try:)
Have you like me ever
wondered how on earth you are going to find a Christian wife or husband?...
Well I've been there too so I want to help out with a few simple ideas.
OK, here goes.
This
may be one of the most important decisions you have to make in your
life and it may decide whether you'll have a happy marriage and will
also affect your children. There are no exact rules for everyone as
God deals with us individually and we also live in different cultures
where some of the less important matters differ. But here are some guidelines:
It
may help to read Genesis 24 through carefully. It deals with someone
who was looking for a bride for a young man and gives us some good principles
to follow.
1.
Look for a Christian wife /husband that suits you. Do not marry a girl/man
who is not a Christian. Dating non
Christians
Read Genesis 24:3-4 as well as 2 Corinthians 6:14-15.
2.
Trust the Lord that He will show you in some way who the right one is
(Genesis 24:7).
3.
Pray that the Lord will show you the right person (Genesis 24:12).
4.
Look for someone who is helpful and caring and outward looking (Genesis
24:17-22).
5.
As far as possible look for someone who has not slept with other girls
/ men oe women (Genesis 24:16). But then you should also see to it that
you keep yourself from this kind of lifestyle that is considered extremely
unhelpful (1 Thessalonians 4:38).
6.
If you want to know where to find the right kind of partner be like
a fisherman. When he wants to catch fish, he goes where the fish are,
the river or lake or sea. If you want to find a Christian partner, you
should go to church or the youth group where Christian people meet!!
If
you pray that God will guide you in this and follow these guidelines
you can be sure that God will lead you to the right person or at least
in the right direction if it is not your time to get married. Be patient
- sometimes it takes God years to work out in you his maturing process
so you are ready when the right person comes along. He has promised
to lead us if we follow Him (Psalm 37:47). You will know, by your love
and respect for the person and by the fact that he/she returns that
love and respect for you, that God has guided you. It is possible that
some people may know at an early age who they will marry, but others
do not. It is best these days to wait until after the age of 20 or 21for
marriage, bacause you are more mature - 30 is a great age where you
should have developed a good sense of self worth and know what suits
you better than you did in the haste of your youth!:)
meet new
people . .
Are you always with the same people? Put yourself in
a position to meet as many people as possible to up the chances of bumping
into someone you like. This also means helping each other out. Be generous
- introduce each other. Yes - we could all use help!
ask someone out!
Hey...
did you know... it's ok to ask someone out!!? - even if you're a girl!!!
Go on be brave an do the asking or at least make it easier for people
to approach you if you havn't quite got the nerve:) You've seen someone
you like - are you going to sit and wait for them for ever? - no - start
a conversation! This is a lot easier for women than it is for guys so
be approachable girls!
101 Tips on how to ask someboody
or someone out on a date
How to
start a conversation
OK... top tip: forget every clever line you know.
Just be natural, listen and ask questions. Here's
some advice on making good conversation.
be attractive & presentable - project confidence -
a lesson from those in relationships!
Why do people in relationships often appear so attractive? A simple
answer is their relaxed manner and apparent self assuredness (obviously
helped by having a partner!) Take on these characteristics and you'll
be winner! Someone who appears desperate is a sure turn off. At the
same time - don't let any anxiety cause you to appear uninterested.
The highest compliment you can pay someone is your undivided attention.
But this may involve asking questions and yes, - listening to the answers!!
guide on how to be attractive
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