101Dating Guide Articles
How to use 101 Dating Site
How to find a date
How to ask someone out on a date
How to be attractive
How to prepare for a date
How to feel good about yourself
How to make good conversation
First date tips & advice
Second date tips & advice
How to keep your date interested
Dating advice for men
Dating advice for ladies & women
Are you compatible/personality match
Finding mr right
Find miss right
Christian Singles do's & don'ts
Breaking up help & advice
More Singles Articles
What is Christian love ?
The four loves
Falling in love
What is real love?
Gender help & advice
Christian marriage advice part 1
Christian marriage advice part 2
What is the noble Goldy wife in The Bible
What is a Godly husband?
Advice about you
How to be assertive
What is real beauty?
Chastity & how to stay pure for marriage
Temptation & lust help
Singleness & help being single
How to find a Christian Husband
101 Singles success stories
Christian Dating Guidelines
General singles advice
Online Dating Do's & Dont's
Do reply to all first time emails you get, even if it's just to say that you've received the message and will get back when you're free.
Do encourage people to fill in their short answers!
Do consider displaying your photo, it increases your chances of being contacted by 10 times!
Do remember the other person can't see you - so they won't necessarily get the meaning you intended - smilies :-) Who said they weren't cool!
Do give honest answers when filling out your profile - feel free to leave a bit to the imagination! Edit your profile any time by clicking 'edit profile'.
Do remember that l-o-v-e can have the strangest effect on reality!!
Do take no for an answer! There are few things worse than being hassled by someone who can't take no for an answer. If someone declines your offer of never-ending love - be reasonable. Ask yourself if you really are compatible with each other - easier said than done!!
Do keep the conversation light to start off. It's not superficial - just get a rapport going. Get to Deuteronomy and tell em about your twenty kids later - Just kidding!
Do tell us if you meet the person of your dreams. There'll be much rejoicing!!
Don't meet someone in a place other than a public one or exchange ANY personal details until it's safe to do so. Take care of yourself :-)
Don't expect a commitment straight away - wait at least 2 working days! (kidding). Remember to have fun finding out the kind of people you like. When it's time to get serious (i.e. - when you decide not continue to email the whole universe!!) you'll know!
Don't be down if your fab offer of everlasting love is turned down!
It's not such a big deal. Everyone gets turned down!! :-)
Don't be intimidated or feel you can't match someone's amazing genius, wit or composure! We're all gifted in different ways. Be yourself. For all you know they may be looking for honesty or some other fine attribute you have in abundance! Talk well of yourself - this in itself is a great attractant!! :-)
Don't be too perfectionistc! You've got to be attracted to someone, - but give them a chance because some people take a while to show their true colours and you'll miss em if you're too hasty. Wait till someone's relaxed and you may find they're the best company and even funnier than you!
Don't wear too much aftershave on your first date - joke;-)!
Don't talk about all your worst experiences in your first email! It's not particularly attractive to someone who doesn't know what a great person you are! The ability not to take oneself too seriously is a must on 101!!
Don't lead people on. Flirting is one thing but gratification of one's ego at someone else's expense is not OK.
And finally... don't forget to make loads of friends in other countries on 101SocialNetworks!
Have fun - 101 Team:)
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