101
Christian Singles - help online
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There are 3 main parts to our Christian singles site:
some dating
do's and dont's:-)
do reply
to all first time emails you get, even if it's just to say that you've
received the message and will get back when you're free.
do
encourage people to fill in their short answers!
do
consider displaying your photo,
it increases your chances of being contacted by 10 times!
do
remember the other person can't see you - so they won't necessarily
get the meaning you intended - smilies :-) Who said they weren't cool!
do
give honest answers when filling out your profile - feel free to
leave a bit to the imagination! Edit your profile any time by clicking
'edit profile'.
do
remember that l-o-v-e can
have the strangest effect on reality!!
do
take no for an answer! There are few things worse than being hassled
by someone who can't take no for an answer. If someone declines your
offer of never-ending love - be reasonable. Ask yourself if you really
are compatible with each other - easier said than done!!
do
keep the conversation light
to start off. It's not superficial - just get a rapport going. Get to
Deuteronomy and tell em about your twenty kids later - Just kidding!
do
tell us if you meet the person
of your dreams. There'll be much rejoicing!!
Christian
singles don'ts
don't
meet someone in a place other than a public one or exchange ANY
personal details until it's safe to do so. Take care of yourself
:-)
don't
expect a commitment straight away - wait at least 2 working days!
(kidding). Remember to have fun finding out the kind of people you like.
When it's time to get serious (i.e. - when you decide not continue to
email the whole universe!!) you'll know!
don't
be down if your fab offer of everlasting love is turned down!
It's not such a big deal. Everyone gets turned down!! :-)
don't
be intimidated or feel you can't match someone's amazing genius,
wit or composure! We're all gifted in different ways. Be yourself. For
all you know they may be looking for honesty or some other fine attribute
you have in abundance! Talk well of yourself - this in itself is a great
attractant!! :-)
don't
be too perfectionistc! You've
got to be attracted to someone, - but give them a chance because some
people take a while to show their true colours and you'll miss em if
you're too hasty. Wait till someone's relaxed and you may find they're
the best company and even funnier than you!
don't
wear too much aftershave on your first date - ha;-)!
don't
talk about all your worst experiences in your first email!
It's not particularly attractive to someone who doesn't know what a
great person you are! The ability not to take oneself too seriously
is a must on 101!!
don't
lead people on. Flirting is one thing but gratification of one's
ego at someone else's expense is not OK.
And finally . . . don't
forget to make loads of friends in other countries.
Have fun!
Technical
Help
- Questions and answers
Q.
How do I display my photo on my profile?
A. We accept photos in JPG/GIF/BMP/TIF/PSD or
PNG format. Attach photo to email and email to us at: 
If
you don't know what format your photo is in, email it anyway and we'll
try and open it:-)
(include username + attach image to email)
Or,
post it to the following address with $10 / £5 and we'll scan
and display it for you! (use
this address from anywhere in the world)
(write
username and user ID on back of photo)
FUSION
101 Ltd Worldwide
1 Aldwick Avenue
Bognor Regis
West Sussex
PO21 3AQ
United Kingdom
Q. What are JPG/Gif/BMP formats?
A. They are standard file formats used to store
pictures on your PC. Name your photo in the following way: my_picture_name
(use underscors - no spaces). To save in an accepted format choose 'File'
> 'Save as'. You will be given different formats to choose from.
See preferable formats above.
Q.
How do I scan my photo?
A. If you havn't got a scanner ask your computer
store to scan your photo and save it on floppy disc. Place the disc
in your PC.
Then email it to us at: (include username).
How
to change/edit your profile
Changing
the details on your profile or adding a photo is easy. Go right to the
bottom of any page on the main site and click 'edit profile'.
You will then be presented with several options which are self explanitory.
Q.
When editing my profile the system 'times out'. Any advice?
A. 1. Try submitting your details in smaller
sections - hit the 'submit' button at the bottom of the page, then go
back and fill in the rest of your answers and re-submit.
2. If this doesn't work, email us at: webmaster@fusion101.net
Questions
and answers (general)
Upgrading to full membership
The
site is free so tell your friends about us. Join now and you can use
the site for six months free and leave anytime - no ties!
Q.
I'm not receiving many emails from other members. Any ideas?
A. 1. Assuming you're sending emails,
displaying a photo increases your chances of being mailed by other members
about ten times! Email photos to: (with
username) or send a photo to us with £5 /$5 and we'll scan
and display it for you. (write username & user ID on back of
photo)
FUSION
101 Ltd Worldwide
1 Adwick Avenue
Bognor Regis
West Sussex
PO21 3AQ
England
UK
Use this address from any location in the world.
2. Fill in your short answers
- these reveal more about your character. You can fill them in or edit
them at any time by clicking 'edit profile'. Profiles with short answers
are much more interesting!
Q.
I'm receiving abusive email from another member.
A. First, do not tell them you wish to contact
us about it. Email us details of the user in question and we'll contact
them and if necessary terminate their membership. Note: we will not
disclose your details to this person. Email us at: webmaster@fusion101.net
Be
safe
For your safety don't meet someone in a place other than
a public one or exchange personal details until you feel it's safe to
do so. Take care!! :-)
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