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Singles - Lonliness
Advice
& Help for Single Christians
by Fusion101.com © 2006
Christian singles - to stay healthy mentally and
physically you must stay involved with your church and
church friends. It's at times like Christmas and when
everyone else is partying in the holidays that Christiain
singles can feel most vulnerable.
If you have the good fortune of being with wife of have
a Christian girlfriend - don't forget to include your
single Christian friends in activities and events. Often
they won't feel like asking - especially if they are the
far side of 30 as most of their friends will be married
off and they won't want to 'be the odd one out' or 'spoil'
the party atmaosphere - as if being single could do such
a thing.
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To avoid lonliness - avoid isolation. Now you must recognise
the thing about a lonly person is that they are more often
than not isolated and depressed and the last thing a depressed
person wants to do is get involved - that's why Im not
giving you a choice - GO AND GET INVOLVED - preferably
in something that helps others. God gives (not exclusivley
as some churches and preachers teach) to those that give!:)
Ask God to help you see where you can serve others -
this is the best cure for lonliness I PROMISE - and when
you do - the chances of you meeting new people is soooo
much greater!:) Remember a man reaps what he sows - so
sow into other peoples lives!
Invite your friends over to your house - cook them a
meal - arrange an outing - do something you wouldnt normally
to bless others and see the reward you get:)
If you really feel its time to settle down and get into
a relationship - get your name down on the next church
weekend away and do some networking with people in other
churches. Join a
Christian social group. Note there is no such thing
as you finding the 'Right One' - you must be right yourself
first - not perfect but sort yourself out and everything
will flow from there. Work on improving your own characteristics
and the way you react to things - be more round and less
angular - ie more likeable:)
Sometimes family can have a negative affect on a persons
whole being - don't blame your family - you're responsible
for yourself now whatever happened but if there's a lot
of stress at home - keep your visits fairly short.
Remember that married people are often excellent matchmakers
so hang out with couples as well as singles.
Ok - we wish you God's blessing on all your relationships.
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